5 Things I Wish I Had as a First-Time Mom

When I look back on my first days of motherhood, I laugh (and sometimes cringe) at how unprepared I really was. I had the cute swaddles, the Pinterest-worthy nursery, and enough newborn outfits to dress a small village. But what I didn’t have were the little lifesaving hacks that make mom life less stressful and a whole lot more peaceful.

So, if you’re a new mama, or shopping for one, here are five things I wish I had as a first-time mom.

1. A pacifier wristband

If I had a dollar for every time the infant pacifier kept falling out of my baby’s mouth, I could have funded their college savings. Traditional pacifier clips helped a little, but they dangled, got lost, or weren’t always safe for tiny newborns. What I really needed was a pacifier wristband, sometimes called a pacifier bracelet.

Instead of clipping onto clothes or getting stuck under blankets, it wraps gently around baby’s wrist, keeping the pacifier right where they need it. No more crawling under the crib at two in the morning, no more meltdowns in the backseat of the car. Just peace of mind for everyone.

2. A white noise machine that goes everywhere

Babies are used to the swooshing and whooshing soundtrack of the womb, so silence can feel strange and unsettling. I didn’t realize how much a portable white noise machine would change my life. It became the perfect sidekick for car rides, stroller naps, or trying to sneak in a shower without baby waking up the second the water turned on.

3. Swaddles that actually stay put

Raise your hand if you ever wrestled with a blanket at three in the morning, trying to recreate that perfect burrito wrap from the hospital nurses. My baby always wiggled free. A zip-up swaddle or Velcro option would have saved me so much frustration and maybe a few tears.

4. A hands-free pump

I didn’t even know these existed until later, but once I tried one it was a game changer. Instead of being stuck next to an outlet, I could have been folding laundry, scrolling on my phone, or just sitting in peace while still getting the job done.

5. A baby carrier that fits like a hug

There’s nothing like holding your newborn close, but your arms need a break eventually. A soft wrap or structured carrier not only keeps baby calm, but also gives you two free hands. And let’s be honest, sometimes that’s just enough time to reheat your coffee.

 

Why the pacifier wristband tops my list

Out of everything, the pacifier wristband is the one I wish I had most. A newborn pacifier falling to the ground for the hundredth time can make even the calmest mom lose her patience. In those fragile newborn days, when you are exhausted and desperate for baby to settle, the smallest convenience can feel like a miracle.

That’s why I love that products like the Ingy Bingy Band exist now. It is safer than a long pacifier clip. It doesn’t dangle and it keeps comfort within reach. It is the kind of smart design every mom deserves in her diaper bag.

 

Motherhood is messy and beautiful all at once. You will never have every gadget or hack figured out, but having the right tools can make those early days so much smoother. And trust me, your future self will thank you.

 

 

 

The Ingy Bingy Band is not your everyday pacifier clip! This game-changing pacifier wristband helps babies self-soothe at a younger age than ever before! Instinctively, babies gnaw on their hands in an attempt to soothe. The Ingy Bingy pacifier wristband keeps their pacifier right where they’ll find it, allowing your baby to comfort and calm themselves while you do whatever it is you need to do!

Our buttery soft wristband comes in two styles to accommodate every pacifier.

Our Pacific style should be used when your baby’s pacifier holes are near their nose and chin when in use. It is most commonly used with Avent, BIBS, Dr. Brown’s, MAM, Nuby, NUK, Medela, FRIGG, Nanobébé, Tommee Tippee, and Chicco pacifiers. 

Our Sequoia style should be used when your baby’s pacifier holes are near their nose and chin when in use. It is most commonly used with Itzy Ritzy, Ryan & Rose, and The Dearest Grey pacifiers.  

If you are still unsure which pacifier wristband style is right for you, check out our style guide or text the name and/or picture of your preferred paci & we’ll let you know which style is right for you!