If you’re thinking about pacifier weaning, first of all, big hug. This stage sneaks up on all of us. One minute your baby is a tiny newborn whose infant pacifier keeps falling out, and the next they’re toddling around with their “paci” practically glued to their face like it’s a fifth limb.

And we love the paci, it’s comfort, it’s soothing, it’s quiet car rides, but eventually, every mom wonders: “When do I even start weaning this thing?”

So grab your coffee, friend. Here’s the gentle, realistic, guide I wish I had before we started the process.

1. When Should You Start Pacifier Weaning?

There’s no one-size-fits-all answer (which is both freeing and frustrating). Most experts suggest gradually reducing pacifier dependence between 6–18 months, but you know your baby best. If they’re using their newborn pacifier more for comfort than sleep, you can start slowly easing into it earlier.

If you’re reading this and your little one is older, it’s okay. You’re not late.

2. Start With One Time of Day

You don’t need to go cold turkey, in fact, please don’t. Start by removing the pacifier during times your baby is naturally occupied: playing, snacking, going for a walk, etc.

Save the infant pacifier for naps and bedtime at first. Weaning in layers is much kinder (and more realistic).

3. Expect Feelings… Big Ones

Pacifiers are comfort, rhythm, regulation. When you take that away, even gently, your baby will feel it. Snuggles. Rocking. Soft words. That’s your new rhythm for a bit.

And if you’re still using tools like the Ingy Bingy Band, that sweet little pacifier wristband that keeps the paci from falling or disappearing, keep using it as long as the pacifier is still part of routines. It makes transitions far less chaotic.

4. Don’t Talk About “Losing” It — Focus on Growing

Kids thrive when they feel like they’re stepping into something new, not being stripped of comfort. Use language like:

“You’re getting so big.”
“You can snuggle your blanket instead.”
“You’re brave and safe.”

Even if your child isn’t fully verbal, your confidence helps their confidence.

5. Choose a Weaning Method & Stick With It

You can:

• Do gradual reduction (only for sleep, then shorter sleep stretches)

• Cut the tip (for older toddlers; makes suction less satisfying)

• Trade it for something new (a stuffy, blanket etc.)

• Have a goodbye moment (“We’re giving your pacifier to the Pacifier Fairy”)

The “right” method is the one you’re willing to commit to with gentleness and consistency.

6. The First 3 Days Are the Hardest

Truly. Day 4 hits and suddenly you can breathe again. Your baby isn’t broken. You aren’t failing. It’s just a transition  and you’re doing it beautifully.

FAQ: Pacifier Weaning, Pacifier Wristbands & the Ingy Bingy Band

1. Can I use the Ingy Bingy Band during pacifier weaning?

Yes! If your baby still uses their pacifier, the Ingy Bingy Band keeps it from falling or getting lost, which reduces frustration. It’s especially helpful if your infant pacifier keeps falling out throughout the day.

2. When should babies stop using a newborn pacifier?

Most babies transition out of a newborn pacifier around 2 years old, but comfort needs vary. What matters most is gradually reducing dependence as they grow.

3. Is a pacifier wristband safe during weaning?

A pacifier wristband like the Ingy Bingy Band is safe when used as intended and under supervision. It can make early weaning phases easier because the pacifier stays close instead of falling on the floor.

4. How is a pacifier wristband different from a pacifier clip during weaning?

A pacifier clip attaches to clothing and dangles, which can be a choking hazard and easy for older toddlers to pull off or fall off during play. A pacifier wristband or pacifier bracelet velcros on the wrist, making it safer and less “in their face” throughout the day.

5. What if my baby is older and still needs the pacifier?

You’re not alone. Gentle weaning works at any age. Start small, reduce slowly, and stay consistent. Always remember that tools like the Ingy Bingy Band can help stabilize habits until your baby is fully ready!

 

 

The Ingy Bingy Band is not your everyday pacifier clip! This game-changing pacifier wristband helps babies self-soothe at a younger age than ever before! Instinctively, babies gnaw on their hands in an attempt to soothe. The Ingy Bingy pacifier wristband keeps their pacifier right where they’ll find it, allowing your baby to comfort and calm themselves while you do whatever it is you need to do!

Our buttery soft wristband comes in two styles to accommodate every pacifier.

Our Pacific style should be used when your baby’s pacifier holes are near their nose and chin when in use. It is most commonly used with Avent, BIBS, Dr. Brown’s, MAM, Nuby, NUK, Medela, FRIGG, Nanobébé, Tommee Tippee, and Chicco pacifiers. 

Our Sequoia style should be used when your baby’s pacifier holes are near their nose and chin when in use. It is most commonly used with Itzy Ritzy, Ryan & Rose, and The Dearest Grey pacifiers.  

If you are still unsure which pacifier wristband style is right for you, check out our style guide or text the name and/or picture of your preferred paci & we’ll let you know which style is right for you!